Can I still do that?
For travellers with curious minds and overactive imaginations.
At some point on a muddy hill in Thailand, surrounded by twenty-something backpackers effortlessly bounding uphill while I concentrated mainly on staying upright, I found myself wondering what exactly I was doing there. Not because I didn’t want to be there. I did.
But I wasn’t the youngest, the fittest or the most adventurous person on that hill. I certainly wasn’t carefree. I was too busy worrying about slipping, falling and making a complete fool of myself.
Then I reached the top. It occurred to me that this wasn’t the first time I’d worried my way through an adventure. Somewhere along the way, I’d become a reluctant adventurer.
Welcome to Tales From The Road Ahead, a travel blog for travellers with curious minds and overactive imaginations. Here I share honest travel stories, practical advice and adventures from around the world through the eyes of someone who often wonders if she’ll cope, fit in or make it to the top, and who then goes anyway.
You’ll find glaciers, safaris, chaotic cities, group tours, comfortable adventures and the occasional questionable decision. You’ll also find plenty of pre-trip anxiety, because half the battle is often convincing myself the trip was a good idea in the first place. Come along and find out what happens when curiosity wins the argument.
The story behind this blog
If you’ve ever worried you’re too old, too unfit, too anxious, or insufficiently whippet-shaped for adventure, you’re in good company.
Will I Fit? Will I Cope? is how I became a reluctant adventurer who spends a surprising amount of time wondering whether she’ll cope, and then goes anyway.
Latest adventures
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Staying at Villa Dinari: a peaceful retreat just outside Marrakech
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A guide to massages in Thailand (or how not to get folded into the shape of a deckchair)
I expected to love Thailand’s temples, food and beaches. I didn’t expect foot massages to become one of my favourite travel experiences. Here’s what to expect, how much massages cost, and which type might be right for you.
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Three Chiang Mai tours I loved for very different reasons
There are plenty of ways to spend a day outside Chiang Mai, but I only had time for three. Fortunately, they turned out to be three very different adventures, each memorable for its own reasons. If you’re wondering which tours are worth your time, here’s my take.
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Most memorable places to stay in Thailand: 7 stays worth going out of your way for
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Going to a Harry Styles concert with my adult daughter: practical tips, crowd survival and unexpected feelings
From ticket-buying battles and concert etiquette to earplugs and exceptionally well-dressed giraffes, here’s what I learned from going to a Harry Styles concert with my adult daughter.
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Erawan Falls: exhausting, humid and completely worth it
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Driving to Poland without a passport: a study in disproportionate panic
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Bangkok to Chiang Mai sleeper train review: magical experience or sleepless night?
When my twenty-something backpacker daughter casually announced that she’d taken the overnight sleeper train from Bangkok to Chiang Mai, she made it sound wonderfully simple. You book a bunk, climb…
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Can I still walk on an Icelandic glacier in my fifties?
If you’re 55 or older and wondering whether you can still safely step onto glacier ice, the answer is yes. With the right tour, preparation, and mindset, hiking a glacier can be one of the most rewarding adventures of your life with no extreme fitness required.
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